There are many things that people must endure here on earth. Two of the hardest things? Both being in love and losing love. Being in love is awesome when it goes the right way. Losing love feels tantamount to missing a limb. Yet, you are supposed just to pick up and carry on. In reality, you look around and see you enjoy life just as much, if not more, than all those people telling you what you are missing out on.
I finally had a crush one one during all my college life, I married a guy who's unique but he turned out sociopath I thought he cared he didn't truly love me I finally had a crush one one during all my college life, I married a guy who's unique but he turned out sociopath I thought he cared he didn't truly love me.
I'm deep down a romantic, I live in a generation where no one respects each other. It's hard for me to even meet a like minded guy. Maybe you are like me, you don't want someone typical or can't attain someone typical. I would love to have a normal partner but fact is I'm Weird. So I'm going to wait for the right person.
Why would you want to date only to be stood up, abandoned? You want something real deep down. This is a question I get asked very often.
I'm right there with you, fortunately I'm with a great person who was a good friend and we just segued into a relationship but I've honestly never been interested in dating for datings sake. Unfortunately I'm a really sensitive guy, when a girl says no I feel down and depressed and 9/10 times I feel disgusted with myself, the worst is when I. If you are not interested in dating because you've been hurt before and are fearful of being hurt again, you might want to reconsider. We all go through a whole lot of hurt to recognize when things are good. If you never try to love, then you lose from the beginning. Hey, it is your choice, and I totally get it. Sep 03, I just am not interested. I enjoy being single, working, doing my running, hanging out with friends (of both genders) and am a very social person with an active and busy lifestyle. I have never been the girl who dreamed of weddings or wanted to get married, and I have never, ever wanted children, still do not.
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Seems simple enough? You're not the only one. I don't date. I'm not interested and rather happy as a clam. I haven't had a date sinceand I had promised God that I remain celibate and single for the rest of my life. And that's for a very good reason. I was a victim of domestic violence while married to my husband back in through I don't want risk running into another bad marriage. So, don't worry about not dating anyone. Be happy as a single person for now and enjoy your freedom.
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Read More. You dismissed this ad. The feedback you provide will help us show you more relevant content in the future. Continue Reading. I've never dated till now. So I try never to get my expectations too high and keep that phrase in mind. None of my current friends date anyone. They are 33, 33, 32, 29, They love their jobs, their pets, their home, their parents, siblings and life in general. I truthfully think you are more common than you think. No reason to worry. Elisse April 3,am.
I love this. GatorGirl April 3,am.
LW, if YOU are happy, then who cares? None of your friends business. IDK, this seems like some seriously unnecessary meddling on your friends behalves. Sara April 3,am. It only has to be a casual meeting to figure out if you enjoy spending time with the other person. And let the chemistry follow or not follow.
Feb 16, Okay, so i'm 18 this year, I was interested in dating back when I was 10 but that was only because it was just what you did as a kid, mimicking adults. I've not been interested in anyone, and dating seems like a foreign thing to me, I've tried forcing it on myself with the result of dating for at the most a day. because I felt abnormal that I was the only one that wasn't dating. Oct 28, I don't really date. It's not like a "thing"; I'm not out on some crusade to be single. It just happens that I'm not dating, and I'm not especially going out of my way to change that. Mar 21, Because you might be asexual and not attracted sexually to anyone. Because you look out for a future date but then realise you're one of a kind and are maybe therefore socially awkward. Or you have been told that you are weird more often so you be.
And, if it turns out you really hate casual dating, you can stop whenever you want. LW, I can relate somewhat to your situation. Its also possible that you may find some therapy helpful to sort out your thoughts and see if there is an underlying cause - such as a low libido. Sometimes hormone levels are off and can change how we feel about things, and it could be worth checking out. I agree.
Apr 03, I'm None of my current friends date anyone. Ever. They are 33, 33, 32, 29, they just never go on dates, don't seem interested in men, and don't make any effort in .
I can absolutely state that high levels of prolactin causes low libido. I have barely wanted sex while breastfeeding and not at all while breastfeeding exclusively. My sex drive only came back a little bit as the amount of prolactin in my system decreased.
Interesting that we have it all the time and not just breastfeeding though. Christy April 3,am.
Also, you could be asexual and heteroromantic-interested in non-sexual romantic relationships with men. Just something to consider and google. Miel April 3,am. I kinda recognize myself and one of my friend in your description.
I think my friend was not even day-dreaming back then. It was just not on her mind. When I turned 18, but mostly around 19, I really began to get interested in guys. My friend is still single.
Still never met anyone that she felt attracted to. I think you should follow the same way. Wait until you feel like you want a relationship. AllegroFox April 3,pm. The food analogy is the best analogy! Ask me later. Diablo April 3,am. I wonder whether you might take a fancy to some guy if it was your choice. It tends to be obvious when it happens.
Im just not interested in dating
KKZ April 3,am. Excellent point, Diablo! LW is allowed to take the rudder and steer herself wherever she wants to go rather than get carried along by the current.
Stonegypsy April 3,am. WWS But also. The only thing you are obligated to do is be honest about your feelings or lack thereof. Banana April 3,am. Well yeah, I mean obviously. LlamaPajamas April 3,am. And guys are allowed to not be interested in you! It goes both ways.
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That video is fantastic! Stonegypsy April 3,pm. Really, I could not be happier for my friends who have found the person they belong with. But I've never felt like I was on the outside looking in. Maybe because I have friends that are so awesome that I've never felt like a third wheel, but also because I don't mind taking my time. Everything doesn't have to happen for me in the next five years, or even the next fifteen.
Life will take me wherever it decides. A lesson I've learned in the murky field of dating in my twenties: if you're not attracted to someone on the first date, you are probably not going to change your mind.
Why Men Stop Dating?
For both of your sakes, just drop it before it gets messy. There is this weird assumption that people who don't date have been "burned" before in relationships, and while that may be true for some people, it isn't true for all of us non-daters.
Most people I've dated have been phenomenal. If anything, that's one more reason not to throw myself into the dating pool: I want to make sure whoever I do eventually date, should I decide to, is as nice as people I've dated in the past. And besides, for those non-daters who have been burned, I'm pretty sure the last thing they want is to share it with everyone who asks.
Not Interested in Dating? Why It's Normal to Feel This Way
Ah, nothing like the sweet smell of someone making rude, unfounded assumptions about your sex life. If I join a club or take up a new hobby, I'm going to do it for me, and only me. Having some sort of weird dating agenda would just suck all the fun out of it. If I happen to meet someone there, then it will be a lucky coincidence, not because I sat through the world's most boring book club to make eyes at someone. I'm sorry about your great-aunt who never settled down and never had kids and regretted it.
But this is the 21st century, darling. I don't need a man to do any of the things I want out of life, having kids included. I mean, it would be nice. But let me emphasize: Totally. This is a sweet thought, so I can't really be mad at anyone who says this, but the thing is, I'm not worried.