Featured below is a clickable table linking to 45 possible combinations of Enneagram types in relationship with each other. These combinations allow us to see deeply within our own character structure and assist us in developing healthy relationships with our partner, family members, friends, clients and co-workers. These combinations can help us gain insight and a deeper sense of ourselves and others, which leads to compassion. Explore the table above, featuring the 45 combinations of Enneagram type relationship s. Before visiting the various Matrix pairings, review the instructions and background information below.
Apr 05, This is a discussion on SX sevens - romance and dating within the Head Triad - Types 5,6,7 forums, part of the Enneagram Personality Theory Forum category; SX first sevens, can you describe how you are with dating and romance? And how is that different to SP. The Enneagram of Personality separates people into nine distinct types - each of who expresses basic fears and desires in specific ways. Type 7s are known as the enthusiasts - they love life and seek to squeeze as much out of their time on earth as possible. They are scattered yet focused, excitable yet dedicated, passionate yet aloof and. May 16, Type Compatibility: The Theory After people learn their own Enneagram type, the next question I invariably get asked is "what types go well together?" or "who should I be with?" Everyone wants to know. The answer is that all type combinations can be happy together if both partners have high levels of self awareness. And the reverse is true. All combinations may .
The basic guidelines are: Two highly self aware people have the best chance of success. Two highly unaware people may be able to continue in a relationship but it is usually characterized with relationship problems.
Their chance of real success is low.
The two people will not understand each other enough to continue. That said, there are couplings that seem to happen more frequently.
We should say female Type 2 Helpers are often found with male Type 8 Leaders. Gender makes a difference when it comes to the frequency of the combinations. However male Type 4 Artists with female Type 9 Peacemakers are extremely rare 2 couples.
Female Type 8 Leaders were often found with male Type 9 Peacemakers. Birds of a feather do not flock together!
Enneagram Type 7 - The Enthusiast. Pleasure seekers and planners, in search of distraction. The Enthusiast 7. Enneagram type identification and personal growth. Personality Types, by Don Richard Riso & Russ Hudson Using the Enneagram for Self-Discovery. Enneagram Type Four (the Individualist) Enneagram Type Seven (the Enthusiast) What Each Type Brings to the Relationship. Enneagram Fours and Sevens tend to be intrigued by each other since they are a generally a case of opposites attracting. Fours tend to be quiet, introverted, self-doubting, emotional, and pessimistic, while Sevens tend to be. Enneagram Type Two (the Helper) with Enneagram Type Seven (the Enthusiast) What Each Type Brings to the Relationship. In many ways, both of these types can look alike. Both Enneagram Twos and Sevens can be outgoing, friendly, funny, high-energy people and very enjoyable company. They want others to be happy and to have a good time, and both.
At least not in Enneagram terms as it relates to love Same Enneagram personality type marriages occurred two times less often than statistically expected. The one exception to this was double Type Four couples.
These occurred more often that the statistical norm. They both have a love of the new and a sense of adventure and romance that can keep their relationship fresh and lively for themselves and be a source of joy and inspiration for others. Both types can be funny, irreverent, and entertaining. There is also an earthiness and bawdiness to both, as well as, paradoxically, a sophistication and elitism.
Being opposites, Fours and Sevens can balance each other: Fours bringing a sense of depth and interiority, while Sevens contribute a sense of fun and emotional resilience. Because they are so different in many ways, Fours and Sevens must have several strong points of attraction or else they will likely miss connecting with each other.
Unless some strong passion romantic, mental, or spiritual keeps them together, they are likely to fly apart if there are any deep disagreements or conflicts early in the relationship. Both types tend to be impulsive and to be easily frustrated with others when they are disappointed or if their life circumstances do not go as they expect.
Both have high expectations for the kind of attention and quality of interactions they want from others, and if they are not forthcoming, both tend to not give others too many second chances to prove themselves. While Fours may admire and even secretly envy the Seven's resilience and high energy, they may also find themselves worn down by their fast-paced lives and what feels to Fours like the Seven's relentless plans and activities.
Fours can see Sevens as too noisy, superficial, and insensitive-and occasionally coarse and insulting without realizing it. On the other hand, Sevens may admire and try to imitate the Four's artistic flair, creativity, and appreciation of subtlety and beauty.
But Sevens can also see Fours as hypersensitive, ineffectual, impractical, moody, and self-absorbed. In addition, if the relationship worsens, Fours usually become more withholding and hostile, sniping at the other from a safe distance.
Sevens become more impatient, abrasive, and can be verbally abusive. Fours may want to talk about everything that has gone wrong with the relationship in great detail with the Seven.